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T O P I C R E V I E WDreamCatcherHow do I do this ? I really dislike the limelight , always have although I am trying to get more comfortable with asserting myself .... how would one move towards their NN in Leo? It's literally the ONLY afire in my chart. sorenthe whole chart has a natural balance and you don't need to move closer to one thing or the other, it all is natural the balance and what not. if anything you should focus on your own personal lackings that you want to improve, but you'll naturally want to do that without thinking of them. my personal lacking is not enough love so i try to be as much love all the time.sorenwhat would be interesting though is if your own personal lackings were in direct alignment with your NN sign. like for leo if disregarding the node, you naturally want more spot light attention, more powerful meaning and animousity, and desire to be generous and be a great person who others look up to, then that is strangely exactly like the NN (perhaps from the NN who knows) in that case it would be a good discussion. sorenmine is in cap, (node) while i do like to maintain an air of leadership or something of the like, it comes to me naturally or it is the thing i push towards with joy, while the SN is something i fall back to, the NN is like something you pursue maybe, anyway it comes naturally. DreamCatcher quote:Originally posted by soren:what would be interesting though is if your own personal lackings were in direct alignment with your NN sign. like for leo if disregarding the node, you naturally want more spot light attention, more powerful meaning and animousity, and desire to be generous and be a great person who others look up to, then that is strangely exactly like the NN (perhaps from the NN who knows) in that case it would be a good discussion. Soren,This makes a lot of sense! I do have the desire to be known and looked up to. I am extremely generous, almost to a fault. And I am trying to get more comfortable "putting myself out there". So I guess I am living out the nn a little ?And thanks for the input sorenYup that sounds like it. No problem You should ask what is your own personal things you think you want to imrpove on. And then focus on how to achieve them. I think i said the word "achieve" because I have cap N.N. I think capricorn if anything is the sign of physical achievement, or achieving anything that has value to it. Cap=AchievementDreamCatcher quote:Originally posted by soren:Yup that sounds like it. No problem You should ask what is your own personal things you think you want to imrpove on. And then focus on how to achieve them. I think i said the word "achieve" because I have cap N.N. I think capricorn if anything is the sign of physical achievement, or achieving anything that has value to it. Cap=AchievementLol about achievement and cap NN. Makes perfect sense. As far as me, I definitely am working on self love and self care. I've got giving it to others down, but have really struggled with giving myself that same level of care that I give others. I've realized that in not taking the most care of myself, I became too depleted to care for others. And I'm working really hard on that !!!! I know it's working because my family always just expects me to take care of everything and now I say "sure once i finish xyz, if I have time I will do it". Lol. I can feel their jaws drop but they won't dare call me out because even doing that , I'm still always doing for others!Ha I think I just got it: take care of others but only after you make sure you are straight. ( you meaning me obviously )sorenyep. we are in the fixed age now so there is a different form of love, it's not about giving gifts as much but about doing exactly what you want all the time, and the more you do that, the more you are able to make the world around you happier. because what you want to do is metaphysically exactly tied to what is best for others as well which is why you have a desire to do it. Ami AnneThe NN is, usually, a struggle. I would say that I force myself out of my comfort zone, little by little. My NN is Saggi. They are full of adventure, which I am not lol------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/sorenwell you can express yourself pretty boldly online, i say that is a pretty daring leap in itself. much like a sag NN, not to mention you are disclosing information (truths) which is what sag is all about. SulkyarcherBuy a lion for a pet.DreamCatcher quote:Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:Buy a lion for a pet.Oh yes that was my plan for 2017! How did you know ?Sulkyarcher quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Oh yes that was my plan for 2017! How did you know ?Dump all your friends, offend all of them! South Node in Aquarus and all.Just kidding!sorenthat's true, instead of moving closer to NN, move away from SN. get very attached to ppl, don't communicate as much. dont think. and dont be weird. and then you will only have the NNDreamCatcher quote:Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: Dump all your friends, offend all of them! South Node in Aquarus and all.Just kidding!All kidding aside- I like my "eccentricity" that the aquarian SN brings. I also have a very diverse taste in friends. I have friends from all Walks of life. If I had to pick one trait about myself that I love, it would be the rawness of my heart, if that makes sense. I truly love people. I always try and see the best in people, but I tend to be attracted towards independent and eccentric types. Those that are not afraid to go against the grain. So perhaps it's about the balance between the NN and SN sorenmy best trait is the deep care DreamCatcher quote:Originally posted by soren:my best trait is the deep care It's a great trait to have. sorenmust be my dsc. actually i think it is fire placements. the89freespiritTo me, the North Node is really not that hard. It all depends on a person's perspective. I think the NN describes latent skills and traits you have but you haven't had time to focus on because you've been too preoccupied with the SN. But, the Universe keeps urging you to go in this direction. The North Node is definitely within you and always has been. It's just the more unappreciated side of you, while you relish your South Node a lot more. the North Node is not that much of a stretch. You just have to stop doubting it and just do it. Just do whatever the sign requires you to do and you'll realize you're actually really good at it. But, if you keep seeing the NN as this really difficult feat, it'll keep being a struggle. With North Node in Leo, you are a lot more creative, passionate, expressive, and leadership-oriented than you may realize. You have to dig deep to understand and access this part of yourself. It's why I think of it as your "true potential" because it's what you can be amazingly good at but you just haven't taken the time to acknowledge it, appreciate it, or develop it. So, you should really take the time to work on your outlets of self-expression and your ability to take center stage. If you make this a top priority, you will discover that it's been a hidden power within that you can now take advantage of. ------------------Check out My Astrology Blog: http://astroarena12.blogspot.comAri-Scobeen seeing many in denial to their NN lately and many saying no way this can't be I won't become thatit's something good to see because people are starting to question their life and purposefor me I had a similar theme before in my early 20s but the struggle was cause I have NN in pisces and I already have pisces palcements in the chart with a total void of virgo only SN so I was swinging between the two so it was not totally different from my type but which way works better should I go this way or that way but now (and by the way I'm having a reversed nodal return right now) whenever I'm having this conversation with myself or in doubt I choose pisces and forget it and in the end it ends up better for me and I still think I have alot to unfoldso my advice is don't overthink to try to imagine how things would be if you force your NN everything will unfold in time also depends on the transits to the nodes be an observant and don't go into details and forget the big picture some will find it soon some will take their whole life trying to find out and someday you will say now I get itthe89freespiritYeah, you have a point. I guess I just don't have much doubt about my NN because I am an Aquarius Rising, same sign as my NN (the NN is in the 1st but not conjunct). It feels much easier for me and not like this major struggle. It is a life-defining balancing act though. The only things I really have to work on are not being so dramatic, not needing everything to go according to my will, and making more of a difference through various causes. Otherwise, I feel like I live up to my Aquarius NN quite easily. And even with those aforementioned issues, I have made a lot of progress with them in the past couple of years. So, you're right. Depending on the chart, there is a certain "learning curve" with the NN and we all understand it at different stages and speeds. I don't see it as some difficult mountain to climb. But, maybe that's just me. ------------------Check out My Astrology Blog: http://astroarena12.blogspot.comSulkyarcher quote:Originally posted by the89freespirit:Yeah, you have a point. I guess I just don't have much doubt about my NN because I am an Aquarius Rising, same sign as my NN (the NN is in the 1st but not conjunct). It feels much easier for me and not like this major struggle. It is a life-defining balancing act though. The only things I really have to work on are not being so dramatic, not needing everything to go according to my will, and making more of a difference through various causes. Otherwise, I feel like I live up to my Aquarius NN quite easily. And even with those aforementioned issues, I have made a lot of progress with them in the past couple of years. So, you're right. Depending on the chart, there is a certain "learning curve" with the NN and we all understand it at different stages and speeds. I don't see it as some difficult mountain to climb. But, maybe that's just me. I've read somewhere that the North Node in easy aspect to the Sun, or Ascendant, are the two smoothest aspects for the North Node.Ami Anne quote:Originally posted by soren:well you can express yourself pretty boldly online, i say that is a pretty daring leap in itself. much like a sag NN, not to mention you are disclosing information (truths) which is what sag is all about. Intellectually, I am bold( 4 personal planet in the 9th) BUT going places like long distance travel and doing adventurous things is what is hard for me, S.------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/alludeuI have north node in leo, in the 5th and I think the BEST advice I have been able to follow from what I've read, is to not wait until your environment is "perfect". Nothing has to be exactly like this or that for you to do what you want. You could keep yourself waiting forever if you keep waiting for the "perfect" moment to do what you want. Understanding that all you've got is this moment and try to work with the resources you have in the present is all you need to do whatever creative endeavour you want.
if anything you should focus on your own personal lackings that you want to improve, but you'll naturally want to do that without thinking of them.
my personal lacking is not enough love so i try to be as much love all the time.
like for leo if disregarding the node, you naturally want more spot light attention, more powerful meaning and animousity, and desire to be generous and be a great person who others look up to, then that is strangely exactly like the NN (perhaps from the NN who knows)
in that case it would be a good discussion.
while i do like to maintain an air of leadership or something of the like, it comes to me naturally or it is the thing i push towards with joy, while the SN is something i fall back to, the NN is like something you pursue maybe, anyway it comes naturally.
quote:Originally posted by soren:what would be interesting though is if your own personal lackings were in direct alignment with your NN sign. like for leo if disregarding the node, you naturally want more spot light attention, more powerful meaning and animousity, and desire to be generous and be a great person who others look up to, then that is strangely exactly like the NN (perhaps from the NN who knows) in that case it would be a good discussion.
Soren,
This makes a lot of sense! I do have the desire to be known and looked up to. I am extremely generous, almost to a fault. And I am trying to get more comfortable "putting myself out there". So I guess I am living out the nn a little ?
And thanks for the input
No problem
You should ask what is your own personal things you think you want to imrpove on.
And then focus on how to achieve them.
I think i said the word "achieve" because I have cap N.N. I think capricorn if anything is the sign of physical achievement, or achieving anything that has value to it.
Cap=Achievement
quote:Originally posted by soren:Yup that sounds like it. No problem You should ask what is your own personal things you think you want to imrpove on. And then focus on how to achieve them. I think i said the word "achieve" because I have cap N.N. I think capricorn if anything is the sign of physical achievement, or achieving anything that has value to it. Cap=Achievement
Lol about achievement and cap NN. Makes perfect sense.
As far as me, I definitely am working on self love and self care. I've got giving it to others down, but have really struggled with giving myself that same level of care that I give others. I've realized that in not taking the most care of myself, I became too depleted to care for others. And I'm working really hard on that !!!!
I know it's working because my family always just expects me to take care of everything and now I say "sure once i finish xyz, if I have time I will do it". Lol. I can feel their jaws drop but they won't dare call me out because even doing that , I'm still always doing for others!
Ha I think I just got it: take care of others but only after you make sure you are straight. ( you meaning me obviously )
because what you want to do is metaphysically exactly tied to what is best for others as well which is why you have a desire to do it.
------------------ Want to Read Simple, Fun,Sexy Articles on Astrology? Check Me Out, DUDE.
http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
quote:Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:Buy a lion for a pet.
Oh yes that was my plan for 2017! How did you know ?
quote:Originally posted by DreamCatcher: Oh yes that was my plan for 2017! How did you know ?
Dump all your friends, offend all of them! South Node in Aquarus and all.
Just kidding!
and then you will only have the NN
quote:Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: Dump all your friends, offend all of them! South Node in Aquarus and all.Just kidding!
All kidding aside- I like my "eccentricity" that the aquarian SN brings. I also have a very diverse taste in friends. I have friends from all Walks of life. If I had to pick one trait about myself that I love, it would be the rawness of my heart, if that makes sense. I truly love people. I always try and see the best in people, but I tend to be attracted towards independent and eccentric types. Those that are not afraid to go against the grain.
So perhaps it's about the balance between the NN and SN
quote:Originally posted by soren:my best trait is the deep care
It's a great trait to have.
The North Node is definitely within you and always has been. It's just the more unappreciated side of you, while you relish your South Node a lot more. the North Node is not that much of a stretch. You just have to stop doubting it and just do it. Just do whatever the sign requires you to do and you'll realize you're actually really good at it. But, if you keep seeing the NN as this really difficult feat, it'll keep being a struggle.
With North Node in Leo, you are a lot more creative, passionate, expressive, and leadership-oriented than you may realize. You have to dig deep to understand and access this part of yourself. It's why I think of it as your "true potential" because it's what you can be amazingly good at but you just haven't taken the time to acknowledge it, appreciate it, or develop it.
So, you should really take the time to work on your outlets of self-expression and your ability to take center stage. If you make this a top priority, you will discover that it's been a hidden power within that you can now take advantage of.
------------------Check out My Astrology Blog: http://astroarena12.blogspot.com
it's something good to see because people are starting to question their life and purpose
for me I had a similar theme before in my early 20s but the struggle was cause I have NN in pisces and I already have pisces palcements in the chart with a total void of virgo only SN so I was swinging between the two so it was not totally different from my type but which way works better should I go this way or that way but now (and by the way I'm having a reversed nodal return right now) whenever I'm having this conversation with myself or in doubt I choose pisces and forget it and in the end it ends up better for me and I still think I have alot to unfold
so my advice is don't overthink to try to imagine how things would be if you force your NN everything will unfold in time also depends on the transits to the nodes be an observant and don't go into details and forget the big picture some will find it soon some will take their whole life trying to find out and someday you will say now I get it
I guess I just don't have much doubt about my NN because I am an Aquarius Rising, same sign as my NN (the NN is in the 1st but not conjunct). It feels much easier for me and not like this major struggle. It is a life-defining balancing act though.
The only things I really have to work on are not being so dramatic, not needing everything to go according to my will, and making more of a difference through various causes. Otherwise, I feel like I live up to my Aquarius NN quite easily. And even with those aforementioned issues, I have made a lot of progress with them in the past couple of years.
So, you're right. Depending on the chart, there is a certain "learning curve" with the NN and we all understand it at different stages and speeds. I don't see it as some difficult mountain to climb. But, maybe that's just me.
quote:Originally posted by the89freespirit:Yeah, you have a point. I guess I just don't have much doubt about my NN because I am an Aquarius Rising, same sign as my NN (the NN is in the 1st but not conjunct). It feels much easier for me and not like this major struggle. It is a life-defining balancing act though. The only things I really have to work on are not being so dramatic, not needing everything to go according to my will, and making more of a difference through various causes. Otherwise, I feel like I live up to my Aquarius NN quite easily. And even with those aforementioned issues, I have made a lot of progress with them in the past couple of years. So, you're right. Depending on the chart, there is a certain "learning curve" with the NN and we all understand it at different stages and speeds. I don't see it as some difficult mountain to climb. But, maybe that's just me.
I've read somewhere that the North Node in easy aspect to the Sun, or Ascendant, are the two smoothest aspects for the North Node.
quote:Originally posted by soren:well you can express yourself pretty boldly online, i say that is a pretty daring leap in itself. much like a sag NN, not to mention you are disclosing information (truths) which is what sag is all about.
Intellectually, I am bold( 4 personal planet in the 9th) BUT going places like long distance travel and doing adventurous things is what is hard for me, S.
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